In a way, your blog only accentuates the deep divide of race that comes first - a tribal mindset preceding sexuality. It is not surpising to your references of 'objectification' of black men and a certain ignorance / insensitivity attribued to white men - a race that has been ini hegemony for several centuries. I guess educating the Other is a way forward as opposed to colluding with the racial divide for all - both the gay and the heterosexual.